A Reminder.

I would like to say that I first and foremost am Shapel.

Now that the air is cleared there I would like to continue to say that I have been thinking about getting a full arm sleeve or my whole side tattooed.

I still dislike tattoos. Always Have and Probably Always Will.

But...

This tattoo has been on my mind for some time...it will be so MEANINGFUL.

I had been through the typical questions about getting tattoos like these..

Would I like it when I'm 80....will I even see 80?

Can I marry(if I marry) someone with a tattoo like that....can someone accept me outside of physical?

I stopped asking the question of can I get a job with a tattoo like that and changed the question

would someone like Shapel honestly want to work for a place that wants me solely on the means of my physical ...I feel like they wouldn't hire me if I was born a certain way...

So six months to a year, the decision will be made.

Saving and much much contemplation begins ...along with consultation.